>From what you say, it would seem that you could not devote more time to
your wife and chldren that what you do, unless you are willing to give up
your own interests. If you were to do that, how satisfied would you be
with your life? Marriage/living together requires a high degree of give
and take, and awareness of and sensitivity to the needs of each other.
We have only heard your side of the story, but it might be that your wife
is expecting a little too much of you in terms of meeting her needs, and
is not sensitive enough to your needs. A good discussion involving
you and your wife about needs, wants, and demands, along with balance, in
a relationship might help.
Robert Carley
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